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  1. Sheogoraath

    Sheogoraath Worst Person in the Universe Viking

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    so, my wife and I are splitting up. This came as a huge surprise to me that she was unhappy, but apparently she had been for some time. As you can expect I'm fairly devastated. Fortunately, we're parting amicably, and our various practical affairs will be taken care of fairly for both of us.

    With all that's going on, my presence on the forums will be even more spotty than usual.
     
  2. Hunter Gamma

    Hunter Gamma Well Liked Viking

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    That's a bummer.
    Good to hear you are parting without conflict though.
     
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    Skwisgaar XO Thrall

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    Really hate to hear that. Let us know if we can help at all.
     
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    gihzmo Moderator Berserker

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    I feel for you, been there. It is good to hear that you are separating on good terms.

    Like Skwi said, don't hesitate to let us know if you need something.
     
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    SheepHugger Well Liked Viking

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    I too feel for you. And it hits home a little bit too hard right now..

    So sad for you guys. I guess that it's just something that's in the air right now or some fuckety shit like that.
     
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    Damion Sparhawk The Missing Link Viking

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    I know how much that sucks, try not to accidentally bend her wheel in the process. >.>
     
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    MostlyHarmless Master of Recruits Staff Member Jarl SC Huscarl

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    So sorry to hear, if there is anything we can do or if you just need someone to vent with we are always here
     
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    Tuonela Well Liked Berserker

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    jChopper Well Liked Berserker

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    That's sucky news.
    Glad you guys are in a position to make a crappy thing happen in a manageable way. It makes a huge difference.
     
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    Trevnor Tokin' Canadian Staff Member Jarl SC Huscarl

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    Oh man, that sucks. If ya need to talk or something man, you've got friends here.
     
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    Damn dude, I'm sorry to read this. Look, if you need a good bro hug, we're here for you. Homo, no homo, all the same to me.:glee:
     
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    Damion Sparhawk The Missing Link Viking

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    Sheogoraath Worst Person in the Universe Viking

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    Thanks for the support guys. Means a lot to me.
     
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    Dihm Speaker of the Word Staff Member Gothi SC Thane

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    Borf is with and inside you, as needed
     
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    I claim the little toe
     
  16. Sheogoraath

    Sheogoraath Worst Person in the Universe Viking

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    Its important that you guys know that I'm not mad at her, sometimes people just grow apart. we both still like each other, the "spark" just isn't there any more. She didn't do anything wrong or mean, and she's going out of her way to make things easier for me, and I'm trying to do the same for her.
     
  17. Damion Sparhawk

    Damion Sparhawk The Missing Link Viking

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    Lost the spark? Try Magnesium!
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    with temperatures reaching 3100 C and blinding light visible for miles I can guarantee a new spark is born... I can't guarantee it'll last more than a few minutes per ounce though XD (sadly, it is also unlikely to have any significant effect on the relationship unless she happens to be a closet pyro)
     
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    Trick is to use the magnesium to light up the spark in something that burns slower, such as human heart. "You light my heart in fire" as the love song goes.

    Take care Sheo. People growing apart happens but it really sucks.
     
  19. Damion Sparhawk

    Damion Sparhawk The Missing Link Viking

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    I see, so, inject target with magnesium, wait for magnesium to reach the heart, then somehow ignite the magnesium... that sounds more like a recipe for heart burn.
     
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    :sad: All the best, Sheo.
     
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