Hey Guys, I need some help.

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  1. Blackfire1

    Blackfire1 Lord Commander of Procrastination Berserker

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    So for those who know already. I'm getting married in a few weeks. I was told yesturday/today that my fiance's family will not be able to help for their share of the wedding. Fiance and I have already paid for almost 90% of the thing. The finally amount due is $2200 after she and I pour the rest of everything we have into it.

    The thing that hurts the most, is my dad is well beyond excited for this wedding. We were going to move it to another date. Till it hit us. This is more likely then not going to be his last wedding. He's not in the best of health.

    I am in no way shape or form asking you guys to donate. I am ungodly ashamed to even ask for help period.
    I was hoping if you guys can spread this around for me. Facebook, IMGR, Twitter, ect. I don't want my family to see that I need help. Simply because I don't want to break it to him that we may have to cancel the wedding after he's worked so hard on himself this last month.

    If you guys can do that, it would mean the world to me. Thanks folks. Love ya.
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    Blackfire1, Mar 3, 2016
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    Blackfire1 Lord Commander of Procrastination Berserker

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    Dude... *tear
     
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    Trevnor Tokin' Canadian Staff Member Jarl SC Huscarl

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    Oh man. Hope you can hit that target
     
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    Tuonela Well Liked Berserker

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    Hope ya make the target, threw a bit your way to help out.

    Have you tried talking to the vendors to see if you can work out a payment plan after the fact? Never hurts to ask.
     
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    Hollister Fun-Taker Berserker

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    I was going to say to cut them off the catering if there is any and save the money, but I'm a vindictive asshole and this should be a happy experience and not about being dickish to people who do not contribute.


    Hope you make the amount you need.
     
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    Dihm Speaker of the Word Staff Member Gothi SC Thane

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    My disposable income ain't much right now, but I did what I can. I can relate a little, having my grandmother (my only real grandparent) pass about a month before my wedding.

    I hope you make it brother
     
    Dihm, Mar 3, 2016
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    Sheogoraath Worst Person in the Universe Viking

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    Threw a little bit your way, I'm a college student and can't do much.

    Hope you make your target man.
     
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    I threw a bit in but couldn't spare much.

    Hope you make it.
     
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    Sheogoraath Worst Person in the Universe Viking

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    BORFERS UNITE
     
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    I'm busy right this moment, but I will be sure to contribute at least $50 later tonight.
     
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    Good luck to you, bro.
     
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    Blackfire1 Lord Commander of Procrastination Berserker

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    Dude.... Duuude.... :kidding::viking::crying:
     
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    Blackfire1 Lord Commander of Procrastination Berserker

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    You guys are too much. I was just hoping you're seed this everywhere. I wasn't expecting money. It's too much guys.
    If I make it. You're all invited.
     
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    Sheogoraath Worst Person in the Universe Viking

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    We got your back bruh
     
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    Borg is family bro.
     
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    Blackfire1 Lord Commander of Procrastination Berserker

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    So I talked to my fiance. I wanted to do something special. So after the wedding I'm going to get the Skjaldborg symbol tattooed somewhere. You guys posting and sharing has gotten us over 1/3 the total amount.
     
    Blackfire1, Mar 6, 2016
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    Gah! Now I have to get a tattoo too?! I can't have others show me up!
    :p
     
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    You know you want it.
     
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    Trampstamp Twins, roll out!
     
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    Something that could save money on catering is making it a potluck wedding. Have family bring a bunch of food.
     
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